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Barack Obama, CEO

Calmest Guy In The Room

‘So, what kind of president will Obama be?’  This was the question posed to me by one of my clients after finishing a massage a few days ago.  B. is a Republican and over the years, after several ‘spirited discussions,’ we decided to agree to disagree on most issues.  That’s why I was a little surprised when he expressed interest in Barack Obama several months ago, and I would say, he’s definitely leaning towards voting for him which would be a giant step for B. .  I don’t think he has ever voted for a Democrat for president.  Anyway, after thinking a little about his question, I said, ‘Well, you can answer that question yourself just by looking at his leadership qualities running his campaign.  That will give you a good preview of how he will lead the country as president.’

BARACK OBAMA HAS RUN THE MOST SUCCESSFUL POLITICAL CAMPAIGN IN HISTORY!

….. And has done so from scratch!  His early message of HOPE and CHANGE captured the imagination and aspirations of so many people who were just completely fed up with politics as usual.  His unbelievable ability to motivate and inspire others has ensured him a base of small donors, unrivaled in history, and enabled him to forego the restraints of public financing.

AN INSPIRING LEADER BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN PEOPLE!

Using his organizational and leadership skills, he built his campaign from the bottom up by empowering people and getting his message out, block by block, city by city, state by state.  The result:  He was able to beat the powerful Clinton-machine in the primaries to become the Democratic nominee for president.  A strong leader surrounds himself with strong and capable people and listens to diverse opinions before making a decision on complex issues.  Look at Obama’s campaign advisers and you know what kind of people he will surround himself with as president.

A STRONG LEADER SURROUNDS HIMSELF WITH STRONG AND CAPABLE PEOPLE!

On a personal level:  Have you ever seen a guy as cool, calm and collected as Barack Obama, especially when faced with a crisis?  He is just completely unflappable, steady, positive, and simply the calmest guy in the room.  Somebody described him as ‘Human Valium.’

COOL, CALM AND COLLECTED!

The success of his leadership style has even intrigued Fortune 500 companies (not necessarily always supporters of Democrats) to use it as a role model for their managers.

BARACK OBAMA – THE TEMPERAMENT AND INTELLECT NECESSARY TO BE PRESIDENT!

By the way:  I have about three more weeks to move my client B. from ‘Leaning Obama’ to ‘Voting Obama.’  And you can be assured, I will do my very best.   🙂

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The Connection: Mind, Body and Soul

Sometimes, when giving somebody with very tense neck and shoulder muscles a massage, I joke around, telling them that I can see names of people engraved in those tense muscles, and that usually serves as an icebreaker or provides for a light moment.  Of course, there is some truth to it.  Because body and mind are interconnected, stress of any kind (involving people and/or circumstances), especially over an extended period of time, can influence our overall health tremendously in a negative way.  Just think about various statistics showing upward of 80% of health problems being stress related.  Imagine by how much that number can be reduced once we know how to decrease stress in our lives and discover ways to deal with stress that will work for us!

You will find various suggestions and tools on that subject when navigating through my website   www.FitwithAndrea.com.   Try out the approaches appealing to you and use the method(s) of stress relief that works for you.  The key to achieving and then maintaining good health is a comprehensive approach.  It includes healthy lifestyle choices, a healthy diet, self-responsibility for your wellness, regular physical activity, and a positive mental attitude and mindset.

Research has shown that negative emotions of fear, frustration, blame, hate and anger cause disorder in the autonomic nervous system (ANS) and can have a negative effect on your immune system.  On the other hand, your immune system can receive a boost and the efficiency of your heart can be increased by positive emotions of joy, appreciation, care, compassion and love.  On matters of the heart, studies have shown that in general, being in a loving relationship of any kind, especially in happy marriages, can help your heart and your overall health.  However, beware that the opposite can be true for negative and toxic relationships.

I believe the following shows the connection between mind, body and soul perfectly.  One of my first massage clients was a sixty-something, very nice gentleman to whom I gave massages on a regular basis.  I sometimes joked with him about his neck and shoulder muscles being like a “brick wall.”  After the massage, his muscles were relaxed and he felt good and was in excellent spirits.  However, when I saw him the next time, his muscles again were like a “brick wall.”  I knew from talking to him that he was retired and his personal life seemed to be okay.  So I had no idea why his muscles stayed pretty much tense most of the time, to the point where he almost couldn’t move his neck from one side to another.  Naturally, I knew that there had to be a reason for that.

And then, one day he opened up to me, telling me how he was still angry at his parents (who were deceased) for him not having had a happy childhood and always feeling like they preferred his brother over him.  When I listened to him, I could hear his anger in his voice and realized that he was still blaming his dead parents for how he felt and probably for most everything that went wrong in his life.  I thought that he most likely had never been able to enjoy life to the fullest, because he ended up blaming his parents for everything that went wrong, and therefore hardly took responsibility and didn’t feel the need to change things himself, because it was his parents’ fault.

Now, this man carried that blame with him his entire life.  And it showed in his tense neck and shoulder muscles.  After hearing his story, I paused for a moment, and then suggested to him that in order to get to a better and more balanced place, he needed to let go of these negative feelings and forgive everybody involved:  his parents, his brother and finally himself.  I told him that if I was in a situation like that, I would seek counseling.  After that we parted and I didn’t see him for some time.  But one day, out of the blue, he called to make an appointment and when working on his neck and shoulders, I noticed how much more relaxed his muscles were.  I was about to make a comment about it when he told me, “You know, I took your suggestion and talked to a counselor and I’m feeling so much better now.”

He didn’t have to tell me at all; his body had told me already.

I lost him as a regular client, because from that time on he got massages more infrequently–as he called it:  for maintenance and preventive health care only, but not out of necessity, as before.

Somehow, I felt happy losing him as a “regular” client.   🙂

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